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    October 07

    重拾"串门"

    说出了你不信,我今天串了三家门,,在这串门已几乎消失的年代,稀奇吧,这才珍贵啊。从面上看,主人都很热情又好客,并不断的在分别时说“再来啊”,但看得出他们内心真正的感受。

    假期里已没有了串门的人,大家都喜欢三五成群,相聚于或景区或酒楼或茶馆了。串门这种中国人相互问候的传统方式,几乎到了被遗忘的边缘。尤其是高科技的发展,为我们带来了足不出户的可能,人与人的交流几乎变成了数字符号。其原因当然有许多,但的确少了很多的人情味。

    还记得以前逢年过节的时候,去串门的情景吗?大家以各种形式的串门,向家人、亲友、邻里表达问候,与此同时也会打开自家的大门,接纳邻居、亲友的祝福,多祥和,多热闹呀?!

    现在越来越多的人在嘴上说着想回归田园一样生活,那么为何不尝试着走出城市里的洋灰森林——单元楼房,到朋友和邻居家走走?不是很多人愿意邀请自己的亲朋、同事来自己的新居做客,这一来一往,或许让我们又重新拾起串门这种古老却温馨的交往方式,融化电子时代的冰冷感觉?坚持啊!

     

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    Picture of Anonymous
    蚂蚁猪猪 wrote:
    仙姑最近忙什么呢?
    Oct. 14
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    章鱼丸 wrote:
    哇哈哈哈哈哈......丸子就是喜欢朋友来我家陪我....

    尤其是帅哥啊.....^^

    可惜最近丸子在家生病...一个礼拜了啊....而且还是一个人.....

    那个情景那叫一个凄凉啊.....

    惨死我了
    Oct. 12
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    童话 wrote:
    现在我又串门到你这里来了
    哈哈
    Oct. 11
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    Vivi wrote:
    现在是觉得串门是很遥远的事情了, 一般约朋友都是在外面吃吃喝喝, 很少去串门. 以后得常去串串.
    Oct. 11
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    飞之歌 wrote:
    我到是经常去串亲戚的门,现在有空也经常来串仙姑的门啦。
    Oct. 11
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    cat wrote:
    寂寞时,特别喜欢窜门.......
    Oct. 10
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    zeletop wrote:
    我又来串门了!正所谓来而不往非礼也!大家互相捧场,和气生财嘛!

    仙姑!今日可好?我发现西湖龙井还不错!可惜我们异城异地,否则可以大家共品茶!
    Oct. 9
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    夏日里的暖暖 wrote:
    对不起~偶不素有意“盗取”你的文章的~那几个地方偶其实真的很想去,也有过写出来的念头,那天不经意路过看到觉得很合意,所以就直接用了,没跟你打招呼对不起!如果给你带来“不自在”,道个歉~对不起!文章我删掉了~就算是个教训吧!
    Oct. 9
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    saintwangd wrote:
    串门虽然是传统, 但是不符合现在人定义的所谓:隐私权. 时代变了, 大家的生活习惯也变了, 其实直接进入某个朋友家里不仅仅是礼貌的问题了.
    Oct. 8
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    zeletop wrote:
    串门怎么会不串呢?
    这可是中国的优良传统!太远不方便串拿那另说!我十一页串门了,而且基本隔一天串一家,也蛮好玩的!
    Oct. 8
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    蚂蚁猪猪 wrote:
    向仙姑学习。哈哈
    Oct. 8
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    童话 wrote:
    是啊,以前住的那里都认识,逢年过节的都要相互串门,如果到了吃饭时间都会极力挽留对方吃完在走呢。
    Oct. 8

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